Showing posts with label Baby #2. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Baby #2. Show all posts

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Baby On The Horizon!

Labor has begun! Contractions started around 4:50am this morning no real pattern just some good strong sporadic ones. Things started changing on this past Friday, my body was giving me some signs that labor was around the corner and I had dilated a bit more to about 5cm. The contractions this morning were strong, but bearable and I was able to get a little more sleep until around 6am when Sophie woke up. We continued about our morning routine with contractions still coming but not really regularly, while Neal made waffles, I decided I should call the midwife and let her know what was going on. I called her at around 7 am, left a message and by the time she called back at 7:18am my first bag of water had broken, only a small trickle at this point. Talked to midwife for a bit and we both decided we would give it a little bit more time before she headed out our way. So we continued about the morning, at this point we were still thinking we might try and head to church, however when I got up from the breakfast table there was a huge flood, my second bag of water broke at 7:45am and I could not get to the bathroom fast enough! I called midwife back and let her know what was going on and she said that she was going to get things rolling on her end, get her ducks in a row and head on over. We called Neal's mom to come down and help keep Sophie occupied for a bit while we got our ducks in a row and while we waited for my parents to get out of church to let them know what was happening and so they could take Sophie up to their house. The midwife and her assistant arrived within minutes of each other around 9 or 9:15am, midwife listened to baby's heart beat and said everything was good. They ran out to grab some breakfast, while Neal and I wrapped up a few lose ends around the house, I got a shower, my parent's arrived and we said goodbye to Sophie and headed out to Harris Teeter to do some grocery shopping since we were way low on food and I wanted some specific things while I labored. While walking around the grocery store my contractions were now about 2 minutes apart. That was a very speedy grocery trip, but I/we got what we wanted.

When we got back from the store I had my snack that I was craving (Havarti cheese, Kashi crackers and cherry tomatoes), midwife checked the baby's heart rate again (140 beats per min) and then I had her check me. At around 1pm, maybe a little before, I was around 5-6 cms but she was able to stretch my cervix to 7 and she could clearly feel the baby's head. That is where we stand right about now. We are going to head outside on this overcast, but pretty fall day and take a walk just to keep me moving and help my body do it's thing. I will do my very best to post updates as things happen and progress so check back periodically and see if I have posted anything new! Please keep us in your prayers as we journey through this miraculous event!

Watching my sweet girl walk away was a little sad.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

A Pumpkin and A Belly

Monday evening we decided it was time to turn our beloved pumpkin into what he was destined to be all along....a scary (per Sophie's request) Jack O' Lantern. Neal drew two scary faces on paper and she chose the face of our new friend. Being almost 3 years old she does not have much patience for the process of things, what child does, so she sort of flitted around the kitchen while Neal drew the face on. She did attempt to help the both of us scoop out the guts and seeds, but let's face it she is definitely a girly girl and really wanted no part of the slimy guts and just wanted to wash her hands! We made some great cinnamon sugar pumpkin seeds which Sophie really liked, a lot. When it came time to start carving, Sophie was a little more attentive, but I think by this point she was over pumpkin carving, she was waiting for the next event in the line up.........painting the baby belly! Since it looks as though our little pumpkin may be staying in where it is warm for Halloween, we thought we might as well have a little fun and make a few memories for the baby's scrap book while we were at it.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

The Nest Is Ready

Neal and I were able to have an anniversary re-do this weekend since last weekend plans were foiled by his sudden cold that made him so very miserable. Sophie went and stayed with my parents Friday evening and she did not come back until Sunday evening! She had a blast, as she always does whenever she goes to either grandparent's house. So when Sophie is away Mommy and Daddy will........work? Yes we worked. Cleaned house, we cleaned the house from top to bottom. It started Thursday night when Neal washed all the floors downstairs and then continued on into Saturday with vacuuming, dusting every surface including base boards and blinds; that was all Neal's department. I cleaned bathrooms, vanities, mirrors, toilets, and SCRUBBED the tubs, that took the most time, and did about 5 loads of laundry! I think we started cleaning around 8 or 9am and didn't finish until about 12pm! We had something to eat, got showered and dressed and headed out the door to do a bunch of errands including getting Sophie's birthday presents, which we were able to score some awesome deals on! Then it was back home to work on the outside of the house and plant the pansies that we had just purchased. Let me tell you planting flowers at a very ripe 37 weeks pregnant is not easy or comfortable, so needless to say Neal planted "his" flowers and then came over to my side and finished planting "mine". After all the hard work we did reward ourselves with an anniversary evening out at one of our favorite restaurants, Carrabbba's on South Blvd. It was so yummy, but I definitely think that we both ate way too much. Neal enjoyed his Sam Adams while I downed 2 glasses of milk due to the incredible heartburn that pregnancy blesses me with. Sunday; church, lunch, Neal cut grass, I finished planting the rest of the pansies in pots to place on the front porch, back to church for our small group and then back home to be greeted by our sweet, sweet Sophie whom we missed so much!

So can you say NESTING?!?!!?!? Bring on the baby folks, 'cause I'm ready and so is my house!


Freshly cut grass and some beautiful fall foliage.



The Fire Dept. even recently came out put a fresh coat of paint on our hydrant! I'm loving the fire red tree in our backyard.


We had lots of pansies, so many I had to start putting them in pots and I almost ran out of pots to plant them in!



Sophie's Snazzy pumpkins, she glitterfied her's and the baby's and left Mommy and Daddy's so we could carve a face.



Monday, October 19, 2009

Beautiful Blanket

Saturday I got a package, I love getting packages! Except this package was really for the baby, but that's okay I still got to open it, of course I had to fight off Sophie, because she thinks that every package that comes in the mail is for her! The package was from Neal's Aunt Sara all the way in California, I opened the package to find the most beautiful hand knit baby blanket inside, handmade gifts are my favorites!! I can't wait to wrap our little bundle up in it, it is so soft, warm and cozy. Thank you so much Aunt Sara it is the perfect gift for baby!



Aunt Sara is not one to leave Sophie out, so of course the package had a little something for the little miss, a pair of Halloween socks and STICKERS, Dora stickers no less! The sticker pack had two sheets of stickers in it with lots of stickers on each sheet......what did my child do? I will let the pictures tell you.


You can't tell from this picture, but since she clearly ran out of room on the front of her shirt, she made a little sticker trail from the front, across her side and onto her back!


Aunt Sara you definitely know the way to Sophie's heart, thank you so much for always thinking of her, especially now with the impending arrival. It means a lot to us!



Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Progress Is Being Made!

Today I had my 36 week appointment with the midwife and all is looking very well. I am measuring right on at 36cm and the baby is moving like crazy ALL THE TIME!!!! Heart rate is 156 glorious beats per minute and I am starting to dilate!!! Yay!! Really that means nothing concrete, a woman could walk around a couple centimeters dilated for weeks, but still it is nice to know that progress is being made. I am 2.5cm dilated and remembering back, oh about 3 years ago, when our first little blessing graced us with her presence, my water broke and I was 3 cm......can I get a repeat performance please within the next week or two? I go back in two weeks (10/27) for another appointment, however I told the midwife that I had a very vivid dream that I was going to have this baby on October 22nd and that it was a girl. Don't know how true that is, but I also had a very clear dream that Sophie was a girl, before we had the ultrasound to determine her gender. So who knows....boy, girl I'll certainly take either, but I would really like October 22nd to come true!!! The midwife also thinks very strongly that this baby is a girl too. Neal swears it is a boy, Sophie is not wavering with her vote of girl, my dad says boy, my mom can't make up her mind, my mother in law doesn't "have a feeling" either way right now I think she originally thought boy, but now isn't sure, and I believe my father in law thinks boy.

What do you think? Leave us a comment and let us know!

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Thank You USA Today

  • When my mom told me about this article today (that my dad found...go Dad!) I knew that I had to find it online and put it up on the blog. Both Neal and I have gotten a lot of mixed reviews about our choice to have to have our second child naturally and at home, mostly people are not sure what to say or make of our choice so they just sort of smile and say that's nice or I hear about a lot of people doing that these days. Some commend me for being "so brave", I don't really see it as brave, but more doing what my body was designed to do. Others have been so rude to flat out said, "You're crazy!" Crazy, no.

  • I do not judge others for how they brought or will bring their child into the world (lets not forget Sophie was born in a hospital), just as I feel that breastfeeding is hands down the best, not to mention perfect food for babies, but I have not and will not push my breastfeeding views on others, so I don't appreciate others making rude comments or thinking I am "crazy" for my choices regarding birth or breastfeeding. Birth in most cases is not a "condition" that needs treatment or medical attention. I do agree that in some pregnancies there is a need for a doctor and a hospital. For me, I had a very uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery with Sophie and this pregnancy has been nothing but normal, so a home birth is a good safe option for us. However, if God forbid something happens to mother or baby, fatal or otherwise, at anytime during labor or delivery at a home birth others are so quick to blame the mother and the fact that she attempted to have her baby at home with gasp a midwife, but if the very same thing or some entirely different complication arose at the hospital no one would even dare blame the mother or physician. How is that right? Anyway I am just loving the fact that USA Today came out with this article to possibly enlighten and educate the American public a little more.

  • Home

Study: Home birth with midwife as safe as hospital birth

Having your baby at home with a registered midwife is just as safe as a conventional hospital birth, a new study says.

In fact, planned home births of this kind may have a lower rate of complications, according to the study published in the Sept. 15 issue of CMAJ.

Even though the study was conducted in Canada, where attitudes toward midwifery are more accepting than in some other countries, the findings may help to calm an ongoing controversy in the United States and elsewhere.

The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists is opposed to home births, as are certain organizations in Australia and New Zealand. More organizations in Great Britain are supportive and Canadian provinces are currently transitioning to midwifery, said study lead author Patricia Janssen, director of the Master of Public Health Program at the University of British Columbia.

Janssen, a registered nurse who has midwife training though not certification, said: "People who function as independent midwives are not necessarily tightly regulated [in the U.S.] depending on which state you're in, so there may not be a guarantee that they have had an adequate level of training or a certified diploma or anything like that. And they may not be monitored and regulated by a particular professional college."

The controversy has resulted in a lack of clear regulation and licensing requirements in the United States, said Dr. Marjorie Greenfield, associate professor of obstetrics and gynecology at University Hospitals Case Medical Center in Cleveland.

According to Greenfield, the National Association of Certified Professional Midwives does have a certification process but many states don't recognize it. "If you're a woman who wants to have a home birth, how do you determine if this person has appropriate qualifications?" she said.

The authors of the new study compared three different groups of planned births in British Columbia from the beginning of 2000 to the end of 2004: home births attended by registered midwives (midwives are registered in Canada), hospital births attended by the same group of registered midwives, and hospital births attended by physicians. In all, the study included almost 13,000 births.

The mortality rate per 1,000 births was 0.35 in the home birth group, 0.57 in hospital births attended by midwives, and 0.64 among those attended by physicians, according to the study.

Women who gave birth at home were less likely to need interventions or to have problems such as vaginal tearing or hemorrhaging. These babies were also less likely to need oxygen therapy or resuscitation, the study found.

The authors acknowledge that "self-selection" could have skewed the study results, in that women who prefer home deliveries tend to be healthier and otherwise more fit to have a home birth.

Janssen said she hoped "this article will have a major impact in the U.S." But there is a definite "establishment" bias against home births. And the issue is an emotionally charged one, she said.

"There is a political and economic issue about controlling where birth happens, but also a deep belief by physicians that it's not safe to have your baby at home," Greenfield said. "Doctors see every home-birth patient who had a complication, but we don't see the ones that have these beautiful, fabulous babies at home who may breast-feed better or have less hospital-acquired infections. There may be medical benefits," she added.

"Midwifery needs to be regulated. It can't be under the radar because then it's dangerous," Greenfield said. "There has to be a regulatory process and a licensure process [to protect] women who are going to choose home birth anyway."

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

28 Weeks....Almost

27 weeks and 4 days to be exact as of today's date, but not like I am trying to speed up the process or anything. Technically, I have 12 more weeks to go, 3 whole months ugh! However, at this point in my pregnancy with Sophie (unbeknown to me at the time) I only had 10 more weeks, so I am really hoping that this baby is feeling the pressure to keep up with big sis and arrive 2 weeks early! I am trying not to get my hopes up because as a mom I know that is never about what we want or how we want things to go, that is just how it is, plus this baby is going to come when it is good and ready and that very well could be 2 weeks late, oh man I hope not!

I had my appointment today with our fabulous midwife and I brought along Sophie and my mom. Everything is progressing wonderfully with the pregnancy. The baby is growing perfectly and is SUPER active, I mean using my bladder as a punching bag, butt bumping with my stomach, practicing kicks for the soccer or football team with my ribs active.....all the time! Since my last visit the baby has switched sides and is now laying with his/her back along my left side and feet out to my right side just like big sis was. I am measuring 30 weeks at 27 weeks 4 days so about 2 over no biggie. The baby's heart rate is 148, which Sophie was able to hear and she was so stoked, the baby also had the hiccups at the time and Sophie thought that was just great and she could not wait to get on the phone and tell Neal after the appointment. My iron is low which explains why have been feeling like I stayed up all night and ran a marathon! The midwife gave me some great suggestions on how to boost my iron levels naturally without having to take those horrible iron supplements that I took or forgot to take when this same situation arose when I was pregs with Sophie. All in all aside from some achy back pain, which has gotten a little better since not having to lift Sophie all the time, an under active thyroid, and low iron this is a healthy, run of the mill pregnancy.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

I Can't Reach My Toes....

So......my fabulous husband decided that he would paint my toes for me since I had mentioned that I was really in need of a fresh coat of paint on the toes that I can no longer reach. He did a great job and was very meticulous. Such a good man, this was not his first time either he painted them for me a couple times when I was pregnant with Sophie too. Thanks baby you rock!!!

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Baby #2 Update

I had my appointment today with the midwife and looks as though we will be having just one baby...phew! Although two at a time would have been a very welcomed blessing. I am still measuring a little over, but nothing like last time. At this visit I was 23 weeks and 4 days along and measuring 25 weeks. So the baby just had a nice little growth spurt early on and everything is working itself out, the baby is still set to arrive sometime around November 13th, but as most know due dates really mean nothing, it is all up to the baby and the good Lord above! Everything else looks excellent, the baby is head down, curled up along my right side and has a heart rate of about 144.

I am finally getting some relief from the awful fatigue that I have been experiencing, my endocrinologist upped my dosage of meds (again) due to the fact that each month I have seen her since my 14th week my TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone) levels have dropped. It seems like it may finally be under control. Not really a huge deal, my body seems to do this when I get pregnant, it probably does not help matters that I already have a thyroid condition, but it usually doesn't flair up until pregnancy. With Sophie my thyroid was overactive and didn't present any problems for me until my 25th week with this little one I am underactive which started in my 14th week, which is why I have been so darn tired! I am not too concerned since I know the drill, I see my endo religiously each month from the moment I get pregnant, she takes really good care of me and at this point it is not effecting the baby negatively at all, just me, isn't that how it always goes with motherhood!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Interesting Prenatal Appointment

I had my 20 week appointment with my midwife today, technically I'm only 19 weeks 4 days, but she sees patients every 3rd Tuesday of the month so it's close enough to 20 weeks! It was a very interesting and exciting appointment. The baby sounds great and I am doing wonderfully too! Now for the interesting and exciting part......I am 19 weeks, but I am measuring 24 weeks, yes that's right a whole 5 weeks larger than normal!!! So this could mean a variety of things:
  1. The baby had a really big growth spurt this month and by next month I should even back out and measure right on where I should be.
  2. That my dates are off and I really am 24 almost 25 weeks into this pregnancy and we are having a baby the beginning of October, but I am pretty sure we were pretty darn precise about when this baby was conceived. ;)
  3. Or there are two babies in there and we are having ourselves a set of TWINS!!!
My midwife said that we should definitely know more next appointment. (I really do love the little bit of mystery that comes with natural birthing and using a midwife!) By the next appointment the baby or babies will have grown more and she can literally get a better feel for things. What she does know is that I have consistently measured over or larger at each visit, so she feels as though we may be welcoming baby #2 in October, which could explain the intensity of the punches and kicks and Neal being able to feel the baby move a couple of weeks ago, but as I said we will know more next visit! At this point she did say that she only heard one heartbeat, but she also said babies have been known to hide and have the amazing ability to do so for a while. Who knows! All I know is that the baby is strong and healthy with a good strong heart rate and packing some powerful punches and kicks and for that we are truly blessed.

So whether the outcome is 1, 2, or 3 from the above list we are happy, excited, and full of anticipation, we are actually really enjoying the surprise that surrounds this pregnancy and could not be happier with the choices we have made and the care that I have been receiving. For now I will leave you with some funny pictures of Sophie and her baby. I do apologize the photos are not Neal quality, I edited them myself and I tried my best! :)


Proudly displaying that she too has a baby in her belly "Like Mommy".



"Getting the baby out".



Telling me that her baby is crying and that I need to hold her!



Sunday, May 24, 2009

Baby Bump 15 weeks

It is definitely true what they say, you definitely show sooner with the second one. Not only am I showing off the fact that I am now "with child" again, but I am showing more of it! I am certainly much bigger at this point than I was with Sophie, but I am okay with that. Neal snapped some impromptu pictures of me, the belly and Sophie Friday evening, the light was streaming in just right through the curtains as I was standing in front of the window and in true Neal style he snapped some great shots.


Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Two Pink Lines And A Hearbeat

Yes, that's right, the title is referring to what you think it is, Baby #2! The Slimick Family is adding another little one to the crew. Baby #2 is estimated to make his or her debut right around the middle of November on the 13th, give or take a few days, or ten if this one is like Sophie! This will give us a nice 3 year age gap between Sophie and Baby #2, nicely planned. I am just about into the 12 week of pregnancy......shocking I know, that I was able to hold it in this long. For those who know me well, you must be literally beside yourself wondering how I kept it to myself for so long seeing as I don't do surprises really well or hold onto exciting news for long, but after a while it sort of became a little fun to see if I could go one more week, and then another and another. And here I am fast approaching 12 weeks and we decided to let the little bean out of the bag. Another very good reason I did not share the very exciting news earlier is because I was feeling like complete crap. I was having a lot of low back pain early on and I was SO nauseous from about the 5 week mark up until the 10th week, it was awesome let me tell you. Trying to keep up with a very active, very inquisitive two year and feeling like you are going to yak all the time was mind blowingly fabulous! So I really did not feel like sharing the joyous news when I felt like poo. I also think that I just wanted to relish in the fact that Neal and I were the only ones who knew, like our little secret miracle, cheesy, I know, but whatev! We did end up telling both our parents at about 9 weeks, we couldn't hold it from them any longer(I am very proud of you mom for not telling a single living soul, I am really impressed).

We are going to be doing things a little differently this time around, our plan is to have the baby here at home with a very skilled, experienced, and highly recommended midwife. With our more natural approach this time we will not be having any ultrasounds (midwives typically don't do ultrasounds) so therefore we won't be finding out the gender this time either, again shocking with my lack of ability to handle suspense or surprises, but we made the decision and we are not going back. We will be able to hear the baby's heart beat with the doppler wand at each visit to see our midwife. We decided even before this baby was conceived that we wanted a different birth experience for Baby#2, not that we had a horrific time with Sophie's hospital birth, we just would have done things differently and spoken up for me and Sophie a bit more. We have done our research, so for those who are in complete shock of our decision, know that we are not entering this blind. We are very excited and looking forward to adding to our family.

We were able to hear the baby's heartbeat for a brief moment at today's visit, the little bean kept moving around! Every time our midwife would get close to the baby, the little one would swim away, although we only heard the heartbeat for a brief moment we did hear it and that was enough for me. We did hear lots of movement through the doppler, the little one was in there swimming to his/her heart's content trying to avoid the doppler! It appears this little one may be just as active as Sophie was in the womb! Apparently my uterus is a little larger than what is typical for 11.5 weeks, but the midwife said that is very common in second babies.......great just what I want to be BIGGER than I was with Sophie! Check back for updates and follow Baby #2's progress!